Re: Without parents approval
^ she is the one asking opinions, and not him. so i have to respond in respect to her. we all are accountable and responsible for our deeds and not for others. so i have to give an answer what she should think about. it is indeed a mutual step but since its easier to blame poor therefore she is most probably get to face more than him.
there is no doubt that such practices are bad (i mean blame the girl only) but this is how desi society has developed into. you cant change it in a day, but what u can do is transfer lessons of "respecting every women" to your sons.