Yeah people ain’t smart. Like if I were a broke medical student in debt doesn’t mean i won’t be ballin in a few years. Marrying the right person is like scouting the right talent and the right time, you gotta look at potential than just where somebody’s at right now. Unfortunately a lot of girls want a guy that “has his sht together” aka at the top of his career, they want a guy who has it made and not wanting to build something new. Not all of them are like that of course, some of them can see the forests for the trees.
EDIT: another example is a pro league team buying a player at the top of his prime that maybe almost done with his career and is only banking on his name and past exploits rather than drafting new talent that could build potentially into something bigger and better. That’s why ya girls gotta #TrustTheProcess !
bahahhaa…is their an article I can read about that…poetic justice.. but that doesn’t surprise me…that high flying estate agent was also probably a bad boy…and the Junior Dr was probably too basic for her…
But also to add…some guys do need that life changing event to push them selves to become successful…an old colleague of mine in the IT field..got divorced like 2 years ago…the guy was down in the dumps for a while cause she left him for some car salesmen…in those 2 years he got his act together.. got a 6 pack, started an online business and just bought a new car and condo…living the life, dating multiple women at a time, and now goes on vacations whenever he wants… He tells me Marrying the wrong girl can actual bring you down..and keep you from becoming successful and chasing your dreams…
Haha, he seems more like me apart from I never got married nor ever had any break-up of divorcial proportions! Not sure why men get married in this day and age anyways
Do you suggest goin MGTOW? I hear that’s the only logical option for men these days.
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I had to google it..never heard of the term… the group seems a bit cultist with their views…but honestly I would be totally down for the cause… especially with modern feminism and divorce laws the way they are…its a huge risk getting married these days. A prenup wont hold up in court sometimes…and if you have a kid, you can say goodbye to any happiness in your life with child support…with that being said, i think Muslim women are just slightly different just cause their views are based from an islamic perspective which is more conservative…but even than…theirs no guarantee. Their is a lot of truth to what they say…
I don’t think matters of the heart are ever truly so black or white. And I think there are good men and women out there. You just can’t allow your bad experiences to close you off completely or you miss the good ones altogether while you are too busy licking your wounds. I’m a hopeless romantic though so I still believe that I might get a second shot at having a worthwhile relationship with someone. I don’t need a dude to take care of me. I think the idea is supposed to be that you care for each other as equals. And that’s what I want. Someone who I treat as an equal to me… not a doormat or a wallet.