not sure about all the points Monk had, but at least the 1st one is true...
'To men belong what they earn, and to women what they earn.' (an-Nisa': 32)
it boils down to the couple...whatever they're comfortable with...they shouldn't be expected to share...if they do, great! but they don't have to...women can decide to keep their earning themselves for whatever :)
and yea, i'm sure there's something mentioned somewhere about men being the providers for the family (hence taking care of their wives and children)...if i find it, will post it here...
Thanks for pointing out facts..desi Munda and Monk! I agree with this whole thing..what this Desi Munda has put it.