Re: Why??
^ Ahmer,
and that is something that only you can change. self determination comes from a singularity of mind.
one must exhaust all avenues of pursuing with dignity, and only then, if something is not to be, then, let it be.
before that, making alibis, being reluctant, feeling self pity, and especially making an error in misjudging a good partner, is not only wrong but causes a lot of grief to the hastening individual.
the ideal thing is to stand up back again and attempt to set right, every wrong that one knowingly or mistakenly created.
egalitarian spirit would have us bring out the best in each other.
an honest apology or even a simple realization in person, can make the best change in life, only if people believed this and acted on it in time...
best,
Dushwari