Why Wrong People Are Blessed?

Lifestyle Relationships
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true that about us not having the right to judge anyone..plus i guess one should be optimistic,not compare oneself to others,not have bad feelings for others having an apparently better life than you do..and how can one be a 'right' person when one is thinking and feeling these negative emotions for others?

but after all we are human,at times we tend to think that way..i do too!have come across many such girls landing in great places,and also others who have been good..and have landed up with great guys too!so cheer up! :)
its about how you take it,not what you get (if thAt makes any sense):p hehe

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@sara yupe same goes for guys too but right now em talking abous gals….

the thing is, in this world, we, as an individual have some responsibilities too,are we fulfilling those responsibilities???......we, as an individual are responsible for doing justice to us, to others & to the society as well ...... those girls are not doing this as far as i think..... may be i m wrong..........

ok lets take an example......i m physically challenged girl ....... i got two rishtas .......

1) guy is nice, well settled, well educated & everything is fine as i wanted..... most importantly he is not physically challenged.
(note: this guy can be a dream boy for every girl who is not physically challenged && .... &&& those girls deserves him too coz they are compatible & not physically challenged

2) guy is well & nice as well as well settled & educated .... but this guy is physically challenged like the girl..........

So now the question is what the girl should do…… should she marry to the guy mentioned in first rishta just because “everyone wants the best thing” baaki justice ki khair he & the girl should become selfish too….or should she marry to the guy in second rishta who is like him & both of em will not be doing any injustice to anyone else……

No normal guy would want to be with physically challenged girl …

If I was at her place( physically ch. girl) I would defo go for the second rishta…… coz I know what I m & I should not do injustice to him……

i just gave an example but a physically challenged girl will never ever get a rishta of a guy mentioned above but thats an example to explain justice thingy......
so ABCD girls should not be whining if ABCD guy marry a girl from pakistan & import her & if some well settled ABCD guys marry a girl from village cozzzz those girls "may" have done some good deeds so they deserve those guys whether they are compatible or not...... everything is “may”……
those girls should do some justice too as they are not kids & are mature enough to take decisions ………..
& I m not jealous of anybody ….. the thing is such girls are not doing justice & that is creating problems 4 other girls out there……

& if such girls did something wrong by mistake & then did tauba thats fine but they are doing such things over & over again & thats not mistake i think.... & they are not doing it out of majboori or something .......the reason they give is they are enjoying there life i mean WTH.... thats the only way left to enjoy life???? ...... wrong deeds will remain wrong deeds you cannot justify them ........

At the end u all have your opinions & I have mine ………. I have posted what I have seen…….thats it ........

& stop bashing me !!!!

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Goes the other way too. You know how many loose douchebags, end up with solid good women? All the time.

Maybe it's God's way of making us better people.

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Sorry but you are generalising. I know of one blind girl who got married to a perfectly health practising revert man.
There are good humans who will overlook these attributes and will marry someone. How can you say you will be a better wife to that man just because you don't have a disability? How dare you say you 'deserve' a healthy man over the blind or disabled woman.

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@ bold yupe there are very few "exceptional cases" too in this world.........

& i m not saying that i will be a good wife or something the thing i was trying to explain by this example is the justice & injustice thingy & you are going to the other side ..............

@last bold
i m not saying that i deserve a healthy man over physically challenged........ go & read my post again...... & try to understand the soul of this topic.......& get a life ......

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yupe that goes the other way round too.......... the thing is those loose douchebags should do justice to the girl & should not marry that solid good women........... those guys have responsibilities to do justice as an individual........

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^But you don't know what goes on behind closed doors.
Also, it's easy to label someone 'good' or 'bad boys' etc etc. Are you saying that if someone is a la funga type they should marry 'bad girls'? Is that really the answer?
Surely they should have the chance to reform and do better for themselves?

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perhaps the pious man is to be challenged with showing the not so pious girl the right path and vice versa....
who knows what Allah has decreed for each of us.