Why is the dictator still sitting in the army house

You are forgetting the day a GC joins the army, he has to sign bonds stating he wont show any political opinion or bias. They are not content with him living in the president house, they have no 'pyaar or maamta' for him, its just that they cant do anything about it and they will be court martialed if they do.

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The symbolism is astounding... one wonders just how much control, influence, and loyalty Kayani has in the army compared to Musharraf. If Musharraf lives in the Army head's house, and the Army lets him.... do they still view him rather than Kayani as their real leader, do they view Kayani as just a figurehead acting on Musharraf's behalf?

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You are forgetting who actually keeps this dictator in power. Once that president leaves, so does his little puppet.

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Does anyone know if Musharraf continues to meet with senior generals on a regular basis - more regularly than one would expect a civilian president to do so?
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He prolly throws a bone at them and tells them to come over for some scotch where they'll all take turns and tell him what a big man he is.