I find the emotional man kinda off-putting and unattractive. High-maintenance men need to find themselves a nice, wealthy cougar lol! Me? I like my military-style man. On the rare occasions when I get a bouquet or a nice complement, its such a huge thing and something that I know came from his heart. With effort. Its so much more meaningful than would be getting an expected weekly bouquet or a see-you-later-i-love-you every day.