diwana
August 2, 2011, 5:32am
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Re: Why do guys take so long to open up or be emotionally attached?
**3-4 recent real life scenarios i came across which made me think why exactly do men take longer (in some cases) to do the extra bit in the relation…
Case 1: **Very sweet & caring wife, husband loves her too but isn’t expressive like the wife is. Her every action speaks of love for him e.g. she cares for what he has eaten, presses her clothes out of will, will always remember to call him, always informs of happenings of the day, dresses up nice for him, every good thing she is supposed to do. She left her job just to be with him and take care of his health. Husband too loves her but not that expressive, not that talkative and not that caring in actions.
Case 2 : Fiancee believes she is engaged so that’s it, he is the ultimate. Fiance takes a long time to absorb. She makes sure she is always there for him via which ever communication mode available. He is cool with it and doesn’t take the extra step to maintain the communication or initiative or show extra care/concern. Apparently, they both are fine with each other but the girl is basically taking the relation forward by her communication where as the guy occasionally takes a step.
Case 3: Its a love marriage..both the guy & girl got married after a lot of hassle in their respective families. They still love each other but even after 3-4 years of their marriage the girl is head over heels over him. He still is her prime focus and she still loves him, gifts him, talks to him etc like people usually are in early months of their marriage. He, on the other hand, seems more concerned about his work life, their future etc.
Mostly, its understandable that since the men are the bread winners they have focuses else where as well but even then many a times its incomprehensible how women can go all the way in the relation specially after marriage but men take it more casually some times.
Cases 1 and 3: Men are showing their love by working hard too and makng sure wives are enjoyng the safety.
Case 2: He has not run away has he?
You just exaggerated what women in all three cases do, by using good words for women, that’s all.
Random examples:
Simply dramatization .
