Why do guys take so long to open up or be emotionally attached?

NomiCA · November 27, 2011, 3:45pm

Re: Why do guys take so long to open up or be emotionally attached?

I dont think its guys only* who are hard to open up. In guys, its natural as it is a part of their nature to express less and act less emotional as compared to girls. but i have seen some such cases too, where the situation is vice versa. the thing basically is, as someone pointed out above, everyone has their own way of expressing their love and concern. In the first case, obviously the husband wont express his love by cooking and dressing up for his wife and pressing her clothes and all that. All those wifely duties would look gross if we find a husband doing them. I think the husband and wife both have been adorned with different set o duties and responsibilities and if they both are doing their duties well, all is well. There is no harm in being a little romantic or bollywoodish though. If a wife takes pains to dress for him every day and look pleasant at the time when he arrives back from office, there is no harm that a guy may show his acknowledgement and appreciation by bringing some flowers or whatever pleases his wife, for her. In the same way, I think every sensible woman knows her husband does a tough job at work. So she should be understanding of he husband and his moods, knowing it better when is the right time to say whatever she wants to. Being blind to the feeling/situation of the other half and taking them for granted is something that both the partners should not do. the problem actually begins when we start to take each other for granted. that is the alarm.

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