Why do guys cheat??

[Sara516]

Re: Why do guys cheat??

@Shikra

Well, when guys be nice and ask girls’ permission before seeing/meeting/marrying/having affair with/or whatever, do you girls give permission? NO! Then the only option is to do it without telling the girl. The way, the girl is happy and the guy is happy as well. If girls say it’s ok to meet other girls, then guys would start asking their permission before doing anything. Thankyouverymuch

Guys You don’t have to thank me for this, we are all brothers

p.s. Girls, let me ask you all a questions: When guys cheat, the other partner is a woman. Now you ladies tell me why are ladies like this? Is this in their nature? I don’t understand why girls do this to guys and their partners. What compels them to stoop so low

Girls might not always know he has someone. Guy can go around playing that he’s single when he’s not.

Also, while girls who purposely go after married men are bitches, they are not in any relationship. They dont have a spouse/other, or a child or anything, the married man can also say no. Also, men will cheat b/c their wife isn’t satisfying them (in some cases). That’s not always the case, but it is something to ponder…

[Shikra]

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That's exactly my point. There are bitches in the world as well. Everytime a man cheats on his wife, women get set on fire and nobody looks at the other culprit. Everyone yells at the guy. I know some cases where the other woman knew the man is married but she still flirted with him (or them) but no, women are angels, men are pigs.

[Sama]

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@Shikra

p.s. Girls, let me ask you all a questions: When guys cheat, the other partner is a woman. Now you ladies tell me why are ladies like this? Is this in their nature? I don’t understand why girls do this to guys and their partners. What compels them to stoop so low

I don’t fall into that category of women but I will try my best at answering.

Guys lure women in such a fasionable manner that it’s so hard to tell whether he is actually sincere to her.

However, in my case the ‘other girl’ didn’t even know about me. Guys are so good at concealing the truth (well for a short period only since eventually they get found out).

Hope that answers it to some extent.

Off to get some much needed sleep right now!

-Sama

[PaRtyGuyz]

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@Sara516

Girls might not always know he has someone. Guy can go around playing that he’s single when he’s not.

Also, while girls who purposely go after married men are bitches, they are not in any relationship. They dont have a spouse/other, or a child or anything, the married man can also say no. Also, men will cheat b/c their wife isn’t satisfying them (in some cases). That’s not always the case, but it is something to ponder…

Sara: r u representing gals or guys:confused:

[dope]

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@Sama

To whatever degree, guys do cheat. Can someone here elaborate on the reasons why they cheat?

Is it just their promiscuous nature that keeps them from committing to that one person?

Why can they not use their brains for once?

-Frustrated Sama

I have the answer.

We have two heads and hence two brains. The smaller head as an IQ of 40 (read retarded). But the smaller head often times can over-ride the bgger head at the sight of another female; and when this happens, men cheat.

Remember women, men are just appendages attached to penises.

Sara, ouch. dearie. Why must you pull a lorena bobitt? how about a nut-wrenching monolithic kick and calling it even?

[Sama]

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@Shikra

women are angels, men are pigs.

I concur

[PaRtyGuyz]

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@Sama

I don’t fall into that category of women but I will try my best at answering.

Guys lure women in such a fasionable manner that it’s so hard to tell whether he is actually sincere to her.

However, in my case the ‘other girl’ didn’t even know about me. Guys are so good at concealing the truth (well for a short period only since eventually they get found out).

Hope that answers it to some extent.

Off to get some much needed sleep right now!

-Sama

sweet dreamz

[Shikra]

Re: Why do guys cheat??

@Sama

I don’t fall into that category of women but I will try my best at answering.

Guys lure women in such a fasionable manner that it’s so hard to tell whether he is actually sincere to her.

However, in my case the ‘other girl’ didn’t even know about me. Guys are so good at concealing the truth (well for a short period only since eventually they get found out).

Hope that answers it to some extent.

Off to get some much needed sleep right now!

-Sama

Women, girls, females, same thing. Did you ask your “guy” why he did that or did you just come here and opened a thread? Maybe he has a reason/excuse. And like I said, women are not innocent either. As a matter of fact, they are cleverer than men in most cases. They just act innocent.

About you concuring: In case if you didn’t know, I was being sarcastic and was saying what many girls think of men.

[Pyaari124]

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@PaRtyGuyz

hahaha good one Pyari, but wht you expect from us(guys). Should we(guys) write a Letter before we cheat, or a phone call, na i guess email is better…orrrr somethin else..

Well first of all…guys cheating…there is no excuse. If a girl lures u into their little “chal” then read a surah and ask allah for guidance. I know girls aren’t perfect either…but there are good and bad ppl from both genders…it just depends on your personal NIATH! The thing I don’t understand is that guys cheat yet expect their wifes or significant others to be all perfect…(ie. not cheaters, say other guys are cute, etc)…do to others as you want done to URSELF! Its just that you need to learn to respect others and yourself…anywayz when u love someone so much how can you flirt with someone else??? Isn’t one wife/gf/sign. other hard enough to handle???

[Pyaari124]

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@PaRtyGuyz

hahaha good one Pyari, but wht you expect from us(guys). Should we(guys) write a Letter before we cheat, or a phone call, na i guess email is better…orrrr somethin else..

LOYALTY! Thats the key word…as well as…respect, trust, and LOVE!

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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well it's quite simple...because guys think with their "ahem ahem" and not with their brain!!!! :D

[PaRtyGuyz]

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@Pyaari83

LOYALTY! Thats the key word…as well as…respect, trust, and LOVE!

ahhh c’mon give me a break…aite wht a man shud do after 15/20 yrs of marriage, whn his wife looks like an aunty and " He is still YouNg"

[KashmiriRainDrops]

Re: Why do guys cheat??

@Sama

To whatever degree, guys do cheat. Can someone here elaborate on the reasons why they cheat?

  Is it just their promiscuous nature that keeps them from committing to that one person?
   
  Why can they not use their brains for once?
   
  -Frustrated Sama :(

Firstly, not all guys cheat…for eg) my Dad, Uncles etc…but for the guys who do…most of it comes from immaturity and selfishness i believe…it depends on his personality too…i’ve seen many guys who wudn’t think of even looking at another girl in that way…and i’ve seen guys who r checking out other girls infront of their partner…and there r those who r so into themselves that they cheat on, not only their wives, but also on their children and then there r some who were “playboys” for a couple of weird yrs (perhaps in college or school), but then at one point, i guess have a wakeup call and mature and can make a total turn around…so let go of ur frustration and find urself a good guy…there r plenty out there

[Sinner]

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woh kia hai .. k v hav 2 do lot of stuff .. go out ... hang around ... masti & blah blah ...

therefore v don't hav much time 2 study ... So cheatin is best option ...

but naqal kay liay bhi aqal chahey ...

its so simple ... :p

[Pyaari124]

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@Sinner

woh kia hai .. k v hav 2 do lot of stuff .. go out … hang around … masti & blah blah …

therefore v don’t hav much time 2 study … So cheatin is best option …

but naqal kay liay bhi aqal chahey …

its so simple …

well its a simple answer too…ur significant other/wife/gf won’t be too happy and u will always get beat with a bailan! Warna aapka saman lawn par har roz ho ga…phir hamay yeh line suna na…

[Pyaari124]

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@PaRtyGuyz

ahhh c’mon give me a break…aite wht a man shud do after 15/20 yrs of marriage, whn his wife looks like an aunty and " He is still YouNg"

turn his aunty into a younger aunty by sending her to the gym…and secondly if she is an aunty he must be an uncle…and another thing…if a girl is still young looking and her husband turns into an “uncle” and has a big belly should she go looking around too??? Soch nay wali baath hai!

[Sinner]

Re: Why do guys cheat??

@Pyaari83

well its a simple answer too…ur significant other/wife/gf won’t be too happy and u will always get beat with a bailan! Warna aapka saman lawn par har roz ho ga…phir hamay yeh line suna na…

yeah smiplicity is best …

nah im so innocent that my counter part can’t even think of beatin me … but when im devilish then sorry i can’t control …

don’t u worry .. i gonna marry wid simplest gaon ki gori se

[Pyaari124]

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^ ALL girls have feelings whether she is from a small mini farming town or whether she is from a big city!

[Sinner]

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@Pyaari83

^ ALL girls have feelings whether she is from a small mini farming town or whether she is from a big city!

Feelings … … woh koon hai … kahan rehti hai …

[ImranQ]

Re: Why do guys cheat??

ok here i go;

I won't talk about BF/GF stuff coz its just a game where both sexes check eachother out if they find their partner good enough they marry otherwise do i know u :)

1) guys don't like over possessive girls
2) guys don't like warrior sort of wifes
3) give respect take respect
4) Always take good care of yourself ... specially your looks
5) A bit of flirting just for teasing their partner is ok with guys, don't take it seriously
6) Don't shout, curse and don't pass sarcastic remarks... this can really make guys hate u
7) earn their trust, respect and love. Nothing is free

enough for now!!