Who hates men? That's PATHETIC. Nobody 'hates' men. Hate is a strong word and if certain people hated all men then their own brother/father/son etc would come into the equation including all Prophets and Sahaaba. If someone is a man hater they need to get a reality check.
Just because SOME men give others a bad name by doing whatever it does not mean all men are hated.
Just because a fellow guppan vents out about someone being mistreated by a man it doesnt mean she hates men. This is a discussion board and all things can be posted. As far as i have been here I haven't read anything that proves anyone on here to be a man hater.
We are all muslims. Please don't start this boy vs girl thing. We are grown ups and I think we can all come to a certain meeting point and accept the facts without dissing the opposite gender, because both genders are to be respected in islam.
Man, because he is the provider/leader/carer for women
and women, because she is to be protected and she will become the mother of the next generation. Please stop all this *****ing and AGGRO.
If any of you feel I have caused any offence in this post get over it and take a reality check. I haven't said anything out of order.
Oh finally somebody realized the truth on this forum:D.Women are evil(the brand you are talking about),the sooner you realize that the better.They think that they are God's gift to men and men have to work hard to earn them...thats why they play hard to get,don't love you untiil they've convinced you that you are a loser,feel embarass if they are attracted to you and make sure that you don't find out,be judgmental and arrogant no matter what cause thats their way of showing how fkg dignified they are.I would say to all men when you run into women like that just look away and don't make too much of it cause they are just not worth it.
Are you kidding me? American men want Asian wives because they will wait on them hand and foot. My dh specifically decided he was going to marry a gori because his mom always whinged to his dad about everything, and when she wasn't whinging, she had a dupatta tied around her head with a headache! His sisters are now following in the family tradition - I have never heard women complain so much about such ridiculous things.
Seriously though, desi men are not going to wake up one day and thing 'you know, I should really change the way I treat my wife. Desi women need to take ownership and say 'I will not allow my husband to treat me like a doormat', 'I will not allow my saas to walk all over me', etc. Sure, it's not going to go over well in the beginning, but if you are smart about it, then insh'Allah you will be successful. The self-sacrificing nonsense has to stop. I believe that people treat you the way that you allow yourself to be treated.
Also, women have to change behaviors before expecting men to do the same. Don't nag so much. Don't complain to him about his mom, set up a blog if you need to vent. My saas has treated me like dirt for 15 years. At first I told my husband, and he tried to defend it, then I finally stood up for myself and told her (in a polite way) that while I respect her opinions, this is the way I do things, and this is the way my husband and I have chosen to raise our children. She complained to her son for awhile, but my husband only saw me being respectful and not returning the complaints (while I filled journals with them) and told his mom that she was overstepping her limits islamically.
So the moral of this extremely long post is - set your limits, then be polite but firm. Pick your battles - it's not worth arguing over everything, and be sweet to your husband when he walks in the door - he's been out working hard to support you. :)
who said we hate men, hate is a strong word. We dislike um and only the ones who act immature and have double strandards and yes who cheat on their wives or get married again without a valid reason. If ur wife whines, it doesnt give u any right to cheat on her. A couple can talk about their issues and resolve um, and i m sure there is always a good reason for a wife to biaotch about.
Tell me this, y do u guys take off ur socks and leave them at the place u took um off. Y do u guys leave ur plates at the table and dont even consider putting um in the dishwasher or sink, y do u guys after gettin home from work just wana watch tv and not communicate verbly.
So its not the men we hate, we basically hate their thinking and their wandering eyes and their freaking lazy arses.
because when we leave the socks where we take them off they reappear in the drwers, all clean and nicely rolled. And dont plates on the dinning table kind of disintegrate into nothing? I have never seen them there when I go back after an hour or so.
Shweets, MM and noorie bite me :p. read the first post again, i said if you dont like something about men then change it, and if you cant then try to compromise and stop calling all men names and making us look like monsters
Shweets, MM and noorie bite me :p. read the first post again, i said if you dont like something about men then change it, and if you cant then try to compromise and stop calling all men names and making us look like monsters
woman the victim, my as$
y do we the women always have to compromise, y cant u guys change ur freakin disgusting habbits. Ur own actions are enough to make u guys look like monsters
Most of the guys dont compromise danny, wht does me being with guys has anything to do with it?
Danny just coz u didnt get it last night, doesnt give u the right to complain about women biaotchness/whinning :p
O plzz quit being defensive danny and admit that if u guys are given a chance, u would happily cheat on ur wives. Tell me this if ur wife allows u to sleep around with other women, would u do it?
Shweets, MM and noorie bite me . read the first post again, i said if you dont like something about men then change it, and if you cant then try to compromise and stop calling all men names and making us look like monsters
woman the victim, my as$
lol..........sorry i'm not god..i can't change people's heart:D
all i do is discarding chicken....because of bird flu:p
look! u stereotyped desi women on GS while trynna deal with them stereotyping all men in one basket 
