i met someone who i wanted to be with 24/7, who understood me and put up with all my baggage, quirks & idisyncracies
loved and respected my parents as much, if not more than i did
not to mention, he was hawt, hawt, hawt!!
i had already lived a very full life at the tender age of 23, seen lots of ups and downs, traveled, neared the end of my education, my mom had remarried at that point and had a new husband and new life…at the end of the day, i just wanted to be with him. you can’t really explain the feeling, but when you feel it, you know. i had no desire to be a “bride”, i wanted to be a wife. i had minimal hand in planning my wedding, my mom & sis held the reigns…all i wanted was to be able to stay out past 10 pm without having to deal with the reprecussions of breaking curfew, i wanted his face to be the first thing i saw in the morning and the last thing i saw at night
Cause I was head over heels in love with him and he made me feel so good about myself and promised to take care of me and treated me like a woman should be treated and showed me a whole lot of respect and love ..... etc etc etc!!!
Cause I was head over heels in love with him and he made me feel so good about myself and promised to take care of me and treated me like a woman should be treated and showed me a whole lot of respect and love ..... etc etc etc!!!
mA
great to hear such stories =\ wonder if such is possible today.
Because I think I am now mentally ready to handle the responsibilities and commitment that comes with marriage. And I wish to believe that I am mature enough to understand that it's not going to be only the wedding ceremony that will need my efforts and attention but the rest of my life where I have to compromise on some levels while the other person has to compromise on others.
Because I am old enough to consider others perspective about thing and not let bring ego in between.
And because I have fulfilled the other roles of my life as per the best of my abilities so now I am ready to start the next phase of my life and give it my undivided attention
Most of the members who posted in this thread married becuz they fell in love & few married cuz they thought they are ready to get married.
NObody married just to conform to the "natural process" of life & go ahead with this step?or just to conform to the society?
… I hate this term “24/7” now 
that means you are needy, clingy, you did not give him enough space.Bla bla bla bla 
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