Hahahha!
Why can’t each person just pay for themselves?
I am actually looking for answers from those who insist that the guy should pay. I am talking about girls who HAVE the ability to make money and are not completely dependent on others.
I have always paid for myself (ever since I started making money). If someone offers, it is a gift, not an obligation.
I still have to fight (not literally) my brother to get him to not pay for me. He insists on paying for me because I make very little compared to him. BUT I make enough to pay for my expenses.