Re: Who pays for what?
For me:
Seperate mayun: my family
Combined Mehndi: my family mainly because it was at my dad's hotel
Shaadi: my family
Valima: my husband
Jahez: my family
Bari: my husband
Honeymoon: my husband, and i would say yeh, if both work, then both should pay.
The only thing my husband's dad spent money on was the jewelry from their side.