there are some people who always whine about everything. whether someone do good with em or bad, they will put forward their pessimistic approach and rant about how brutally they have been treated. they are never happy. they have "hiwas" for everything.
peoples calls attention seekers, and if the guns are pointed towards them they once again start ranting, but i personally think these people want others to think about them only. such characters forget that no one thinks about them. their actions is similar to a joyous circus act where it is perceives as a show for entertainment.
interestingly, their ranting has never bring any good to anyone, not even to them instead it tells how easily one can be ticked off. and no one likes to be associated with weak-minded people, who are easily breakable.
ironically, whiners motto of life "dont live and dont let live" is barely identified and cure by anyone, instead the people who has blood-relationships with such whiners would eventually start keeping distance from them, whereas others will enjoy their show until whiners also drag unimportant people in their lifeless life story. soon or later the people who once enjoyed whiners scandalous talks will also abandon them.
the reasoning whiners give about their rant is it relaxes them as "dill main baat rekhanay dill ka booj halka hota hai".
ironically, woman who is considered psychologically more stronger than man, i witnessed whines lot more than man. and i strongly believe the day she stops to putting a show for others and only considers that what ALLAH SWT would have said on her any action (i mean she should consider whether she will be rewarded or punished of any action), all her problems will be solved.
i personally think we women take too much in to consideration what man has to say about our actions and approaches. Men are not perfect, nor they are interested in our problems, neither have interest in solving it. So sooner we realize it the better it will be for us.
I agree with the bolded. Not sure about the rest. The rest is fairly widely generalized, and I think everyone's life experience is different enough that we all whine about different things for different reasons.
But yes, paying less attn to what men want you to do and more attn to what YOU want to do with your life, puts you in a better position of control, and chances are, you'll be whining less.
Unless you have a tough job, in which case, you'll whine regardless.