Thank you Gizzy.
You got it all wrong Fraudia ji,
Us Pakis don't care for dactaaars, laaayers
or bidniss men.. in Pakiland, Custom Officers rule. 'Munda custom da...' is who everyone's Amijan has her eyes on (for her daughter of course).
It all depends on what your goals in life are. Striking a balance between the two is usually the key to happiness (if that is your aim).
Question: What if one (career or love) is holding back the other. Will it be alright for us to make a choice. If yes then who would be responsible for the consequences? ourselves or society in general.
ok guys lets get the grey matter rolling.
Antidote
haha I agree. I was thinking more of the Us based Pakistanis. Doctors and Lawyers baycharay have no izzat in Pakiatn compared to Customs officer.
Very true Kashmirigirl. Why not compromise a suitable balance?
Unfortunately its difficult because sometimes I find it hard to tell a particular person (while im at work) that i have work to do and I cant stay on the phone.
Emissary
no you always hang up on me saying that boss a raha hai ya server down ho gaya hai etc etc.
You are playing with my spleen (umm heart has already been given away)
fraudia aap nai apna dil kis ko day diua??? yahanh be aap ka koi intzar kur raha tha aap nay to chupkay chupkay dil ka kisa tamam lur diua.
Pakrose
dil went to the love of my life who is also known as my Mrs now. We have been happily married for 2 1/2 years.
(I gave her my heart, she pickled it and keeps it in the fridge)
A spleen, that is all that I have to give..
Fraudz :)
Speaking from personal experience, my career came after my love and by the support of my lovely lady it rocketed after marriage, 8 years on its not stopping and moving at fast pace. I now know where I want to be and stop, whereas 8 years ago I had no idea.
Nice topic.... :)
Although a healthy balance should be maintained......it can be hard to sort out your career if you're not at peace in your heart or with your loved one....
Sometimes career can take a back step when a loved one appears on the screen...and then your career (which was once your whole purpose of being )can suffer.
Although it's easy to say ....''keep a balance''.... it can be quite a challenge.........
Personal experience tells me that if you put your love before your career even once....then you'll do it again and again and your career will suffer........but when you're with your loved one then nothing else matters......... so to keep a balance, you have to work at it...
it's hard ....but if you want to keep both.....then you Must....
MS
:)