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Halima - I dont entirely agree with you.

When I was larger I used to say to my friends 'I look fat in this' not to fish for compliments but as a factual statement and my friends didnt tell me nawwwwww you look so thin they used to help me out with clothes which suited me better.

Whats wrong with girls who do well in school AND look after their appearance. You dont have not remove facial hair to be an A grade student. They arent directly correlated

Yes I understand some girls do say omg I am so fat when they are not as a cry for attention, but sometimes a girl can say something as a cry for help.

I tend to compliment very little, but when I do its real. I have even complimented random strangers on clothes, make up etc.

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TOTALLY agree...people don't bring up what they're really insecure about. There's girls that will post statuses up about "omg no boy likes me" just to have 50 ppl say "omg they totally do". I, for one, was the possessor of gorilla like arm hair at one point in time and i WAS self concious about it which is why I would NEVER bring it up or draw more attention to it.

At the same time, girls that post stuff/say stuff like "OMG this boy just said I was hot". "OMG, he totally checked me out"...I hate them too...I just deleted 2 ppl because of that. Those girls are equally insecure and pathetic compared to the one's fishing for compliments.

You know how the truly hot girls are becuase they'll never be the one advertising it. You'll just know.

I"m sure this was a tangent but whatevs. The whole fishing for compliments thing has recently really really been pissing me off so yep

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My roommates used to compliment EVERYONE and I NEVER do (usually if I think you're gorgeous I won't say it to your face either because it's just ...weird...I hate people giving me compliments and gushing) so I was referred to as the ***** out of the group

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Jealous much?
Now go stand in the queue and wait for your turn :chai:

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Hey inspiron :)

Yeah "I look fat in this" isnt one of those annoying remarks for me, because it's specific to something contributing to accentuating something you feel insecure about. And its not actually bigger girls who annoy me when they say it, it's when average/skinny girls say it. my close friend was quite large before (18) and though, yes, to me, she would every now and again say "i want to lose weight" she didnt say I'm fat. Nor did she say it publicly, if ya gets me.

And what I'm saying about the tash thing was only meant relative to me, I'm pretty sure, that had I had it easy in school, lookswise, I would have probably prioritised them. Just like if my parents hadn't split up I'm certain I would have dated. I feel like these things shaped ME. Not that the lack of having a tash makes you a dunce ha. It is correlated for me, my tash made me insecure about myself, it made me want to concentrate on my strengths, which was conditioned learning back then.

I complimented a girl on her coat today. I never like anyones coats.

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Who cares man! I like complimenting people and enjoy any compliments given to me. And I'm not that girl with high-fi confidence etc so I do need an ego booster sometimes.