Re: when do you decide to give up
You don't give up. People act retarded these days. They break off relationships (any relationship) over trivial issues and their own insecurities and weaknesses.
Relationships are no picnics. You wouldn't leave your mom or your sister or your daughter out on the curb after a few fights would you? Then why do folks leave their significant others in a heartbeat when things don't run their way? Then, you really didn't think of them as significant in the first place, did you?
You have to be able to:
- Accept the differences.
- Forgive, forgive forgive. Heck, GOD of all beings can forgive YOU for the CRAP you do, but you can't forgive someone for some stupid thing? Doesn't make any sense.
- You don't like something? Suck it up, and deal with it. Marriage is not a game.