^ true... we just discussed that at work (with a colleague of mine).
If one thinks something is an issue and the other snubs it off... its hard.
But I guess it really depends on what the issue is yeah?
for example, if i find it annoying the my hubz leaves dirty tissues where i dont want them... am i gonna leave him cus he wont change or will i just nag him until he gets it or just leave it altogether?
Sadzz their is a saying in urdu if you understand "jo peechay mur ker dekhtay hain woh pather ke ho jaatey hain" So always try to let it go. Sometimes memories make us sad and we cannot scratch them from our mind but we can try to forget them by thinking what good we have right now.