^^ I might be wrong here or others might not agree with me.But you have to learn to forgive and forget.Might be easier said than done but that's how I feel. What others say does effect and influence a relationship but its against that you have to keep the relationship strong. I can dig up a million things my husband said to me(or he can dig up what I said to home and was wrong absolutely)or what any of his family members said to me.they haunt me and still make me feel sad and will always do.But I cannot leave the one man I have grown to love over the years.Yes there are moments when I am not liking him this much,but I don't think any of it should be the reason to quit. I have learnt to love with a few of his shortcomings and so has he..so we reached a middle ground somewhere and never noticed the transition I think...
I am not saying that a person whose personality drives you totally insane,is still compatible as a spouse.I am not talking about extreme things because obviously those need some serious thinking!!
ur so right...
i think when we just acnknowledge the differences and the mistakes and try our hardest to not let them happen again, thats when u know u r really committed.
Theres gotta be more to a relationship to be happy about then the things that perk up now and then.. nahin?