Re: When a 60 year old man wants to marry again...
well maybe uncle was not happy with wife1 and was just in the merridge to keep kids heppy. now he merry woman of his dreems. but he's kind enough to not diborce wife 1. he is a good men. and he get implants for his wrinkly batty.
Re: When a 60 year old man wants to marry again...
why women of 21st century doesn't follow the values and norms set by women of 6th/7th/8th century. when islam was spreading and men used to be married to 2-3 women at the same time .. those women never had a problem .. why 21st century women have ..
oh .. wait a min .. i just realized that during those days there was no media and no star plus! .. I get it now ..
I guess you are going to have to transport a handful of women from the 8th century for yourself.
Re: When a 60 year old man wants to marry again...
I guess you are going to have to transport a handful of women from the 8th century for yourself.
The man got a lady who is ready to be his second wife and there are other women ready to be second wife...............so no need to import women i think.........
Re: When a 60 year old man wants to marry again...
He is rich. She is 21.
Its a match.
As for men's rights to a second wife. Yeah, sure.
You all have a right to a second, third or even fourth wife. But like anything and everything in life...nothing is free. Everything has a price. Either you pay that price here or upstairs...but you do pay.
You can marry but you're still not allowed to hurt any human being or treat your first wife unjustly. So...if you ignore her feelings and exercise your rights...so will she.
You know I only know a few men who have two wives...they never even made it to wife 3...and they're all bald.
This scenario reminds me the story of poor Abdul Satar Edhi . A girl at his office begged him to marry her as she is all Besahara. He ended up appointing her as an accountant and I think they did nikkah . Once she got all the blind trust from Edhi sahab she gathered all the money she could and ran away with another person working in the same office
Well I hope it won’t happen to this poor gentleman . . . but just sayin’
Re: When a 60 year old man wants to marry again...
So a distant cousin of mine, "happily" married for 30 years, with a couple of children and a grand child, suddenly announces to his family that he is planning to marry a second wife who he met at his workplace and is 21 years old.
His family is obviously shocked but the dude has made his decision. The other thing is that he still loves his wife and she can't find any issues with their relationship other than this major new development. She's now confused about the next step as in whether to move out or just accept this. He is otherwise a great gentleman, a loving father, a great provider and so while everyone is very taken aback, there isn't any drama or anger. Just confusion.
So, dear Life1 psychologists, please discuss, and shower us with your 2 cents.
What's the question exactly? Is it about what the first wife should do? Or what we think about the uncle and what he should do? In either case, I don't know the parties involved enough to say anything. I'll just wish all the best to all the parties.