Here is a tip for singles and just married couples with a situation:
Get on toes when you hear "ok fine" or "kuch nahi" or "kuch bhi tu nahi" (last one is used more in romentic dramas than in real life).
For example. You are about to leave from work to home and your freaking boss asks you to stay late. You call home and tells her that "begum I'll be late tonight" and if she goes all taliban, shouting fighting with you, then bhayya all is well and you can work late but if she says any of the above mentioned term (ok fine or acha? theek hai or kuch nahi or more dramatic ok nahee, theek hai), then nothing is well. Kick boss in the back, take your you-know-what off the office chair and rush to home overspeeding. Even if you get caught by cop for overspeeding and if he is married, he will let you go after finding the situation coz he can relate to the story.
Here is a tip for singles and just married couples with a situation:
Get on toes when you hear "ok fine" or "kuch nahi" or "kuch bhi tu nahi" (last one is used more in romentic dramas than in real life).
For example. You are about to leave from work to home and your freaking boss asks you to stay late. You call home and tells her that "begum I'll be late tonight" and if she goes all taliban, shouting fighting with you, then bhayya all is well and you can work late but if she says any of the above mentioned term (ok fine or acha? theek hai or kuch nahi or more dramatic ok nahee, theek hai), then nothing is well. Kick boss in the back, take your you-know-what off the office chair and rush to home overspeeding. Even if you get caught by cop for overspeeding and if he is married, he will let you go after finding the situation coz he can relate to the story.
This is how they are!
lmao.... you forgot to mention that if the boss himself is married, than he would probably call his employee's wife to ask for permission to work late, and completely bypass the hubby.
Jannat main dakhila ki koi guarantee nahiN. Shukar karain kai issi duniya main pariyon aur shehzadion kai saat sabika par gaya - hoor milna to door ki baat hai
I know someone already stated it but why on earth would you continue to ask us what’s the matter? Do you have a death wish? Aik baar agar kaha hai kuch nahi toh phir bhi kyun bak bak kartay ho tum loug? I mean when nothing is wrong then you know something is wrong and you should leave it at that, trynna open us up and ask over and over what the matter is will clearly earn you a slap or two. So what if nothing IS actually wrong, even then…don’t dig too much into something. If we want to rant we’ll rant, I don’t think I’d stop ranting for anyone. CM, chup raho…har waqt sawaal kartay rehtay ho…aurton ki tarha bak bak lagayi hui hoti hai.
Sorry, it’s just…a re-really…s-s-sensitive topic It j-j-just gets s-so emotional..
So if you already know whats gonna happen 2 hours later (taliban ambush) why not, ditch the friends and just hang out with her quietly. Maybe cook a meal or something?
Women do this for many reasons:
-sometimes they just need space and want you to know they are upset but don't want your involvement or explain why she is upset
-At times, they do it to get attention and if you don't show care, thats when you get a taliban ambush
if a man asks you "are you mad" and you say "yes I am. You're so annoying! you didn't back me up when I had that fight with so-and-so"... the man then either proceeds to lecture you or they tell you that you're a "fighter, a hater, or DRAMA". So that is why we do not divulge in your questions "are you mad"?
It j-j-just gets s-so emotional..