If the woman ALREADY said “No” the first time…then you should have let it go. Why ask her again if “she’s sure that she’s not annoyed” ??? No, don’t mean Yes. It don’t mean try harder. It means …“NO” without or without the crazed shiny look. A “crazed look” (if there is one) should deter a smart person from daring to ask a second time. 