aray baba don’t point the gun at me for saying guys have short attention spams
i just read it 2 days ago in that U.S.News magazine; there was an article how girls can handle the real world better. and it roots down to the beginning of the classroom (
Mr. X, yes it is very low to spread rumours and coming from guys themselves, they say they do find it hard to accept rejection coz of the whole ego thing. Is it really true that their pride gets in the way. I think more than the fact that they're in love with the girl, they're obsessed with the idea of being with her.
aphro yes I know there's nothing one can do if they're talking **** about you, but what if they get really chichar and they won't leave you alone. No longer can you use nice words but you have to resort to being blunt right, but they still don't understand and then the whole psycho-obsessive behaviour starts.
How does one deal with that.
Give up, Kitty Kat… if there’s one thing I’ve learnt from observations at university its that men cannot, and will never, understand women; and women cannot, and will never, understand men (let alone learn to read a map properly
i agree with the girls,,,
guys spreadin untrue romours about a girl who just rejected them makes me sick,,, its amazing how a guy wud go on n on n on about a chick he likes,,,, n then wen he copes a rejection letter, hes the one spreading all the bad words n making sure every1 knows that shes a bitch n shes been doin this n that n that how shes got such a bad character n blah blah...
those guys need to grow up,,,
but then again,,, girls arent angels too..
goes both ways...
but even if u think that uve been treated unfairly,,, just shut up n get over it.. accept it like a man,,, n guys shud b nice enough to just take a deep breath n try n forget about it..
Are you a male or a female… I thought
you were male(mangelo… and that previous reponse
kinda reminded me of skittles (Taste the Rainbow)Hopefully intelect and stumps
will get that sly hint
** Mu Hu Hahahahahaha!**:hoonh: "Quote the Mu,“NeverMu!”
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And once rejected, they will make it a point to spread vicious rumours about the girl involved and make her appear to be a heartless bitch
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what bout women who spread rumors bout other women just out of spite or jealousy
what bout men spreading rumors bout women just out of spite (no relationship involved)
this kinda caught my eye and i had a query
So whats up with these men and women?
so insecure of and about them own selves that they have to spread rumors to tarnish the reputation of the person they feel threatened off
what satisfaction do they really get?
tch tch tch
now now Xtreme, i said men and women both
no sexism here involved
okay, cat.
girl relax. like i said, don’t let the little pricks get to you. (but a few days have passed since you started this so i’m guessing you feeling whatever from the situation has slightly wore off .. )
just have faith in yourself that losers aren’t going to have a toll on you. that’s the last thing i’m sure you want to happen cuz then you’re just gonna make it harder on yourself.
there are only so many things you can have control over. you don’t have control over wat the guys respond to whatever you say … but you do have a hell lot of control with what you say to them in the first place.
you’re being blunt with them? well, good.
let them know you’re not liking it one tad bit that they’re bothering you this much - maybe say it nicely, ( not like a snob ) but still say it clearly that they get the point.
and there you have it. you did your bit in letting them know where you stand on this.
now as for how they respond … well if it’s not how you like it… remember you didn’t have control over it, now did you?
so just let it go. block guys like that out of your world. i know it’s easier to say it than do it.
abay yaar,
those kind of guys i was referring to were reaaaaaal pricks.
and with me choosing to talk to you - obviously means you aren't one of them and that i'm doing nothing of that sort !!
now enough with trying to blackmail me ..
[This message has been edited by aphrodite (edited August 06, 2001).]
But aphro shouldnt we NOT be using words like Yaar??
I dont know ,in Pakistan if a girl says yaar ,there parent 'Chhekh te haine" & you would be grounded.Shouldnt we keep up our heritage & culture ,eventhough we might not be in Pakistan