Some people want the spotlight on them at all times, and can’t bare the thought of it being on someone else.. somegroovychick](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/somegroovychick.html) .. i know someone like that too.. wonder if its the same person.
My advice: you dates are set, your outfits are set, your venues are picked out.. why not give her the pleasure of you enjoying your own wedding .