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i am a kind of girl who can bear everything even my husband is mean zalim to me but if he is involved with some other women when i am present it his life i wont take tht and i will simply go away from his life forever
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We can bear everything but This kind of cheating is always unbearable. i Wish we all have nice partners so we could understand eachother, & never have such kind of problem.
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if we dont give husband another chance....
our family will force us to..
what to do then????
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janab it will depend his cheating that if he already married and then marry with me then obviouly i wold leave him some people cheat in this way that before married they showed on his wife family that they r master or did m..b.a but they did only inter this another way of chaeting i see may girls live her husband after knowing this sort of affacts its depend on cheat
well u should have mention the type of cheating so that we will comment accoding to this
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let me tell you Zehra actually i was meant that if your husband cheating on you after marriage, he still intersted in someone after having you as a wife. Then you would do in this situation.
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Andy...fact is if you cheat on your wife...your marriage might not end in name but you will forever lose that trust is crucual in a succesful marriage...
Fact is you may be forgiven or she may realise that cos of things like family blaming her or cos she has kids...she may decide to put up with it...but she'll hate you...especially if shes been good to you...And she just wont be good to you...so whilst the marriage may live in name it will probably die in reality...
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i m really scared, i wouldn't try to cheat on my wife :) Trust is first step b/w you and wife which leads you to a successful life
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Yesterday on Oprah, cheating was the topic. A husband had cheated on his wife with her best friend, in their own home, once while she was upstairs and he was downstairs. Amazing at how cruel he was. But they were staying together for now.
The pain and humiliation and heartbreak in her eyes was so crystal clear, I cried for her. Can counselling really help you overcome those feelings of betrayal?
If I was the victim of a cheating husband, I used to think I'd walk out on him and take him for all he's worth, just to punish him. I still think that, but now that we have kids, I think I'd think long and hard, go through counselling, and see his behavior before breaking up. A lot of marriages have survived infidelity, but it certainly does take its toll.
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Well, that is very sad....u can talk to him, give him another chance, if he still does it than leave him wht else can you do.
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Honestly, doesnt matter what anyone here will do.... what matters is are u able to forgive him, without driving yourself insane? Do you even want to give him a chance?
For me, I would leave but every situation is so unique...sometimes what feels right is not so easy to carry through on... But I would leave because in that situation when a husband has stopped caring then you have only you to take care of yourself...and i know if I stayed I would beat myself up over it....find insidious ways to blame myself....
and to me thats not worth it...better to cut and run....
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Forgive if u can. Else leave him.
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Leave him even if i luv him coz i trusted him then i come to know i was makin fool of myself the whole time....
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just to give it another twist from the husband’s perspective:
if he cheated on you and went to another woman, then it could actually be a punishment for him if you do NOT leave him 
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Andy I have a feeling this has to do with your persian internet gf and subsequent consequences.
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ummm great answer
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Andy all insults aside im a going to type nicely so listen to me carefully...
If indeed you are in love with your internet girlfriend then you should cancel any impending marriage to your fiance...she nor you should have to get married to someone who has feelings for someone else...
You would hate it if you got married and the girl had feelings for someone else...she wouldnt work hard in the marriage...she will be miserable and the marriage would be a disaster...if you enter marriage with someone you have no feelings for or even an inkling of desire for it is going to face difficulties...its made even harder by the fact that you say you have feelings for someone else...that spells disaster...
You try to deny it but you have no respect or care for your fiance otherwise you wouldnt be doing what your doing...people get excited the few months before they are married...not only do you not seem concerned...you are straying...
Now honestly...dont get defensive...do you feel you are ready to marriage?...especially to this fiance of yours?...If you are honest with yourslef you will answer no...dont ruin that girls life and more importantly dont ruin yours...
If you love your internet girlfriend then pursue that...dont marry your fiance...
Now dont get defensive and reply with insults...take the points on board and do whats best and you know what that is...
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Thanks for you sincere suggestion, I m happy that you said something good:) Anyways let me tell you that i have broken up with my online friend. Now i m getting married & i hope that INSHALLAH God will bless me everything i want. I love my fiance too.... Who said that i don't love her. But i never get a good chance to let her know that i love her. Pray me That God Show me the Right Path.
Thanks And regards
Andy
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I wouldn't kill her, at least I don't think, you know heat of the moment you never know what ur capable of, I would throw her out on her ass, humiliate her, and tell her family how bigga whore she is. That's what I think I would do, but I may end up blaming myself in the end.
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You sound's very sensitive person afridi