i guess that differs between different girls
tall, dark, handsome, sense of humor, mature, intelligent, nice shoulders - and also social recluse types I could never stand smooth talkers - too many of them in my family already
hmm...
what put me off guys were the ultra fashionable ones - a man is a man leave the dressing up to the women fgs!
thats me but 2 pakistani women I know have married Irish and Sicilian men - the Irish because he is calm and the Sicilian... well she said the first thing that struck her was that he was not only very good looking but also a wrestler AND a writer
so maybe she went for the strong intellectual type?