Re: what to you is
if you want unconditional love, then you are definitely NOT free from desires nor from attachments! If unconditional love is what you want, then have a child or get a pet. Simple. Either of these will love you with all your heart no matter what you may ever do or not do.
The freedom to express yourself without judgement, well thats a tough one. No matter what it is you are expressing freely, there will always and forever be those who agree and those who do not. And if ALL are free to express themselves, well then we all get tied into all kinds of knots dont we?
This question is a tougher one than it seems on the surface yeah?
the questioner asked "what to u is hard to come by?" I expressed my opinion based on that. It does not mean that these are the things I want. It also does not mean that I have not experienced what I have mentioned. thanx for the uncalled for advice but I do know what unconditional love is. Dont need to get a pet for that!