Re: What should we do…
Everyone believes in his own way. Some are comfortable with just the tag and others go for complete devotion. Maybe those women were interested in just the tag and cultural familiarity. A union isn’t destined for failure if the parties have slight religious differences. However, I wouldn’t recommend a Hijabi(voluntary hijab usually signals extreme devotion to religion) marry a social drinker. She’d just make him miserable with her religious lectures and she’d make herself miserable thinking she’s going to hell for staying married to her heathen husband.
People who’re really serious about religion usually ask about it pretty early into the talks. Do you pray? no. Fast during ramadan? no. Believe in allah? crickets. Ok bye!
If she ain’t asking for details she doesn’t really care. Hopefully 