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If I beat you to it, how am I the COPY KAT??!! lol

Marriage is the ulitmate risk but you can do so many things to minimize the risk. At the end of the day, it doesnt matter if its arranged or love marriage...risk is still the same. You dont know everything about anyone...just what they've told you or allowed you to see.

For the most part, marriage works out well. Yes, the divorce rate is high right now but thats our fault...marrying for the wrong reasons and divorcing for petty reasons. (Not to say all divorces happen for petty reasons)