what makes ppl commiting

[cricketplaya]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

Lafantar bhai, yaar hum hain na yahaN. Aap pareshan kiuN horayN hain? Mat hoiye, paRhaai bhot asaan hai, kiuN stressed hotai hain! 1-800-GUPSHUP use ki jiye.

[dutch_paki]

That is true. :)

[UZ]

eik momin umeed and naa umeedi ki darmayaani kayfiat mein rehta hai . agar naa umeed hota hai to ALLAH ko yaad kerta ahi and waheen use umeed bhi nazar aati hai. naa umeedi kufr hai .
Suicide insaan usi waqt sochta hai jab usey kisi cheez ka hal nahi milta agar thori der ke liye insaan cheezein ALLAH per chor dey and sakoon ker ley to waheen se naya rasta khulna sharoo ho jata hai and cheezein different perspective se nazar aanay lagti hain and insaan hopeful ho jata hai .
May ALLAH help those who are thinking of quitting their lives because of some little things which can be later solved.Ameen
Don’t be a quitter be a hitter

[cricketplaya]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

hitting wife is also haram. ^

[UZ]

@cricketplaya

hitting wife is also haram. ^

Haaw haye to lafanter ki wife kahaan ahi

[cricketplaya]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

haha

lafanter ki wife...wo khud bataiga

[Lafanter]

@ume-zafeerah

eik momin umeed and naa umeedi ki darmayaani kayfiat mein rehta hai . agar naa umeed hota hai to ALLAH ko yaad kerta ahi and waheen use umeed bhi nazar aati hai. naa umeedi kufr hai .
Suicide insaan usi waqt sochta hai jab usey kisi cheez ka hal nahi milta agar thori der ke liye insaan cheezein ALLAH per chor dey and sakoon ker ley to waheen se naya rasta khulna sharoo ho jata hai and cheezein different perspective se nazar aanay lagti hain and insaan hopeful ho jata hai .
May ALLAH help those who are thinking of quitting their lives because of some little things which can be later solved.Ameen
Don’t be a quitter be a hitter

sucha ho dil to so mushkilain hoon, jhukta naseeba paon main
lakin jub umeed na rahey to dil bhy jhoota ho jata hai

@cricketplaya

haha

lafanter ki wife…wo khud bataiga

ik heer thy or tha ik ranjha kehte hain mere gaon main

[cricketplaya]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

tha matlab?

[mama_ki_dua]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

Reasons for those who end up commiting suicide could be one of the following:
When there's possibly no way out of a situation
Unable to cope with things
They might be sick of their life
Loss of a loved one
Mental disability

There must be more reasons but these are the only ones I can think of for now

[Niksik]

@Lafanter

SUICIDE

have u ever thought abt that or u just brag abt how bad, disrespectful, a big sin and awful it is how would u react or what would u think or how would u cop with it if some time in ur life u think abt doing it remember, life is life, it takes u there where u never thought u would be

A close friend's wife committed suicide a few years ago. They'd been married for 4 years. She was very young. I still get jitters when I think of her and everything that happened.

It was very hard on her husband and her family.

Now, I could sit and argue about how she could have handled all her problems, but the fact of the matter is that she did not share her mental state of mind with anyone, no mediator, no counselor or physician. Maybe she could have been helped.

Allhamdullilah, I have never been in a situation to think like that. I'm not sure what goes through the minds of people who do this.

[UZ]

@Lafanter

sucha ho dil to so mushkilain hoon, jhukta naseeba paon main
lakin jub umeed na rahey to dil bhy jhoota ho jata hai

to bhaii umeed paida karo

woh mein ne kaheen suna thaa kisi indian channel per ammi ke ghar

sab kitabon mein likha paya hai
dard ne zindagi ko pala hai
doob jaati hai yeh gham ke darya mein
isey umeed ne sambhala hai

[Sara516]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

what makes them think of committing?

not knowing the future, that things are so bleak and hopeless and dark right now that tey cant possibly begin to imagine things might get better.

[desi_ostrich]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

due to anomic conditions ? [FONT=Century Gothic]Emile Durkheim, a French sociologist, introduced the concept of anomie in his book The Division of Labour in Society, published in 1893. He used anomie to describe a condition of deregulation that was occurring in society. This meant that rules on how people ought to behave with each other were breaking down and thus people did not know what to expect from one another. Anomie, simply defined, is a state where norms (expectations on behaviours) are confused, unclear or not present. It is normlessness, Durkheim felt, that led to deviant behaviour. In 1897, Durkheim used the term again in his study on Suicide, referring to a morally deregulated condition. Durkheim was preoccupied with the effects of social change. He best illustrated his concept of anomie not in a discussion of crime but of suicide.

[shining_star]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

When some people do not share their problems with others,and keep them with themselves,and when they do not think of any solution and do not see any hope in life,they usually think of committing suicide.

[desi_ostrich]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

actually thornstain veblen (a german sociologists ) also shares same views as durkheim

[Lafanter]

@mama_ki_dua

Reasons for those who end up commiting suicide could be one of the following:
When there’s possibly no way out of a situation
Unable to cope with things
They might be sick of their life
Loss of a loved one
Mental disability

There must be more reasons but these are the only ones I can think of for now

@Niksik

A close friend’s wife committed suicide a few years ago. They’d been married for 4 years. She was very young. I still get jitters when I think of her and everything that happened.

It was very hard on her husband and her family.

Now, I could sit and argue about how she could have handled all her problems, but the fact of the matter is that she did not share her mental state of mind with anyone, no mediator, no counselor or physician. Maybe she could have been helped.

Allhamdullilah, I have never been in a situation to think like that. I’m not sure what goes through the minds of people who do this.

@ume-zafeerah

to bhaii umeed paida karo

woh mein ne kaheen suna thaa kisi indian channel per ammi ke ghar

sab kitabon mein likha paya hai
dard ne zindagi ko pala hai
doob jaati hai yeh gham ke darya mein
isey umeed ne sambhala hai

@Sara516

what makes them think of committing?

not knowing the future, that things are so bleak and hopeless and dark right now that tey cant possibly begin to imagine things might get better.

@shining_star

When some people do not share their problems with others,and keep them with themselves,and when they do not think of any solution and do not see any hope in life,they usually think of committing suicide.

now these kind of ans i m looking for and pls guys include how would u deal with the situation if was u

[mama_ki_dua]

Re: what makes ppl commiting

How you deal with it? Talk to someone