Re: What is your version of sabr?
First, there isn’t a bad habit that’s not abusive in long run. Abuse is not only physical but emotional and monetary abuse.
Secondly, If I love my spouse, I’ll try to help her get rid of the habit as much as I can. Using all the tools from my love and company to external help like seeing dr etc. If the bad habit just goes on and on even after all these remedies, my mind will automatically start thinking about how can I save my kids from effects and once that is in my mind, I am sure I’ll be ready to take any step that can help save my kids from it and yes that includes leaving them initially temporarily though giving her one more chance…