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thank u 4 understanding ..............................:)
Actually, I did not understand what you are asking as well. :)
What part should I elaborate upon?
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fallenpieta, nice of you. thanks.
Dushwari
Then why do you ask questions that have such obvious answers?
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thanks all concerned fellows. :) really nice of you all.
knockout artist, to a better place.
witch dr, reputation is for all time and the idea is to maintain it always.
best,
Dushwari
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A Person can either enjoy the time which he spends in a place OR he can enjoy when he leaves that place.
But why can he not enjoy the time he spends in a place as well as when he leaves that place?
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"To throw pearls before pigs."
Some people consider kindness as a weak point.
We should be selective when interacting with people.
Doosti udhar hona chahiay, jahan insaan ki qadr aur izzat hon.
We dont choose our relatives yet we do choose our friends etc.
Most people have to go through the experience of how differently people can be...... Most dont realize the value of another person, until the damage is done. So thats my feedback, sis Dushy. Take care.
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thanks you Pathani sis. i always said that this is one relationship that one builds on one's own and yet it is sometimes not respected as such even though claims are made. value of one another in a meant manner is a rare occurrence. at some point, it becomes the same..
best,
Dushwari
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STP, may it be so what you said.
a teaching moment, perhaps. the person himself or herself should be able to enjoy when they leave as well as when they stay or visit.
as for the memory of one who is not all these things, a bad thought maybe is natural, but the sincere and tolerent person would not be overwhelmed with a bad thought so much so as have the insincere and intolerent person, learn, the precious value of accorded sincerity which was way laid.
Dushwari
A Person can either enjoy the time which he spends in a place OR he can enjoy when he leaves that place.
A person who has a dependable, loyal and tolerant reputation would always be kept in a spin by people around him, BUT once he leaves that place he would forever enjoy their sincere prayers and well wishes.
On the other hand a person who doen't have such reputation would enjoy his stay in that place as no one would bother him for help, but once he leave that place no one would even remember if any such person ever existed in that place. If few remember, they would remember with a bad thought.
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When I said that a person with such a reputation might not be able to enjoy during his stay, it was only to mention the extreme situations where alot of people "are forced to" make your life "difficult" with too much expectations, yet they don't find anyone else to sincerely help them out of trouble.
It is definately very easy and enjoyable to live with reasonable and good people who don't bother you much but believe in "give and take", but the REAL TEST comes when you have to take along the unreasonable sincere people (who are troubled by life and need guidence) for the betterment of society.Their education might be too limited to make them realize their faults. "Cutting off" from them might be a comfortable solution for the individual (whom they bother) but not for the society/nation as a whole.
I hope now I am able to clear my previous post.
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^ & now i understand it better, brother :)
trust in the trustworthy human being is a saving grace, a reason for stronger care and comittment & when that give itsef way, it is only disappointment. expectations are nothing & no to be had from anyone.
best,
Dushwari