Re: what is the reward of marriage?
Well excuse me if I dont mock and joke when theres a serious discussion going on- or supposed to be going on.
Over the top to comprehend. Oh you know yourself so well. Thats why people like me are around, to help you by spelling it out a hundred times a day.
Bring along whatever you want. I wasnt even aware you had brought up anything serious. Well you havent . I cant pretend you said anything worth saying.
Re: what is the reward of marriage?
TY hiccup, since you said it, I believe wholeheartedly
Re: what is the reward of marriage?
an inauthentic tradition upon analysis as it contains two unknown narrators…
it is recorded by al Tirmidhi in his Sunan (1180), Ibn Majah in his Sunan (1854), al Hakim in al Mustadrak (4:173) via the route:
Muhammad ibn Fudayl reported to us, on the authority of Abu Nasr Abd Allah ibn Abd al Rahman, on the authority of Musawir al Himyari, on the authority of his mother, who said: I hear Umm Salama say: I heard Allah’s Messenger (saw) say: (the hadith)
Ibn al Jawzi (d. 597H) said: “It is related from Musawir al Himyari on the authority of his mother… and they are both unknown [narrators].” (Al Manawi, Fayd al Qadir, 2945)
Ibn Hajr (d. 852H) said of Musawir al Himyari: “Unknown” (al Taqrib, 6587)
Hence, muhaddith al Albani graded this hadith: “Munkar/rejected” (Silsila al Da’ifa, 1426)
It seems these weaknesses in the chain of transmission were missed by al Tirmidhi and al Hakim who deemed the tradition authentic
of course, husbands and wives should make each other happy, and each has rights upon the other
Re: what is the reward of marriage?
^^ thats why I dont believe in Hadith. Way too many discrepencies.
Re: what is the reward of marriage?
^ whatever... perhaps i was premature in saying al Tirmidhi deemed it authentic since i see he graded it "hasan gharib" which leaves it open that some hadith masters will call it "weak"... as for al Hakim, his leniency in authenticating traditions is well known such that other scholars rarely accept his unilateral judgement on a hadith
Re: what is the reward of marriage?
people with your IQ shouldnt bother.
Re: what is the reward of marriage?
blushing_vision I think any good woman would make a good wife and I am sure you know what the rewards for being a good person.
Re: what is the reward of marriage?
if any one has any suspicion about hadith's must go to the mutavva and must not come on the net and ask the questions's as if any ass is asking,
none among ushere are alim-e-deen to explain the tafseera and every thing,
for proper gaining and uderstanding of islam one must go to aalim's and must not say anything wot ever he//she understands withhis dumb mind!!!
here people they ask questions and masails and when they get answer instead of practisng, they point out suspicions and they make fun of hadiths like munafiks and jahal's,
so when u dont want to do amal , y to waste time in asking questions and making a big issue??????
Re: what is the reward of marriage?
Oh OK sorry for asking sir. SMD B
PS: People with my IQ are way beyond religion; a man made contraption. Dig it up I am sure the Prophet expounded on that as well.
Re: what is the reward of marriage?
blushing_vision, you have to honour each other.
2:187:‘… They are your garments and ye are their garments…’
theres heaps of articles and books on these issues..
Here your favourite verse…
4:34. *Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband’s) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all). *