Re: What is in a married man’s mind?
Well I kind of get the thinking behind her question…reason being, different people have different ways of dealing with things and if you had an arranged marriage, you would want to know how men generally are until you’re comfortable enough with your spouse to know his personality.
In my experience, and I don’t say that this is a gender thing but I know when I’m upset I’d like for someone to approach me and comfort me. My husband wants me to just leave him alone and let him be.
It sounds simple enough, but its taken some time for us (ok me) to understand that fully…reason being, I was raised with the thought that if ur spouse is sad, u comfort them…and it took me a while to get over hte “guilt” of leaving him alone even though I know that’s what he wants.
I hope that kind of makes sense and answerd hte question