In my dads family the mayoon rasam is then followed by the guests which are all family members playing ubtan with each other
Its fun to watch dadis and chachas with ubtan in their hand running after each other trying to pain each other with ubtan.
just like my mom side family
but this day called MAANJAA ....... is it all relatives give gifts, clothes, and mithai for groom or bride(one of them) and for his/her family and play with ubtan