Re: What if both spouses are doormats?
they will not make a gud couple i guess,cuz two likes repels and unlikes attracts..
so i guess there will be no spark left in their relation....
spark is so over-rated! what are people looking for, a bollywood movie or a drama in their life? fantasies and realities are two different things.
Sometimes life is so difficult that the last thing you want is your spouse to be giving you an attitude or falling out of love with you because there is no spark. Love is not that selfish.
Re: What if both spouses are doormats?
By doormat, I don't mean someone who apologizes if he/she legitimately does something wrong.
How do you determine legitimately 'wrong'? Often times, people apologize NOT because they truly believe they were in the wrong but because they want to maintain relationships and not give the other person a hard time. They are tolerant, not doormats...
Re: What if both spouses are doormats?
and I would love to have a man who fulfills all my wishes. That is love at its finest. I am not gona ABUSE him as a wife but love him just as much in return. I think that is a concept marriages were based on in the past, but these days it almost seems like people will give up everything for some sort of a fantasy spark.