Re: What exactly is flirting?
Notorious, people will always judge u no matter. You can't please everybody and you shouldn't try to. Who cares if someone thinks you're flirting or not. What matters is ....do you think you're flirting? If you know you are NOT flirting.....let your friends think whatever they want. It's sad when people feel the need to twist a simple and innocent conversation with the opposite gender into something more than it really is. I guess such individuals thing that a guy and a girl cannot have decent conversation that does not entail flirting.
Oh well, just be yourself. If you feel like talking to someone, talk. If you don't feel like talking, don't . But don't base these decisions on what others think.....people think differently and you will NEVER make everyone happy. So why try? Especially for simple things like this. Flirting means different things to different people.
YOU as person, KNOW when you're flirting.....it's playful attention that u show another person....usually when you are attracted to them. And for some people....attraction doesn't even have to b a requirement, they flirt for the heck of it. BUT as an individual, regardless of what others think, u'll know for the most part if you're flirting.