well in truth maybe I’m over exaggerating a little…I can understand Urdu very well…but this urdu transliteration isn’t the easiest to understand 
Also speacking it can be somewhat of an issue for me…I sometimes get the aap or tum mixed up with the elders… 
And for the ex-rishta he couldn’t speack english well…and all in all it was a confusing meeting…
and yes like Inzi said…a job would help waleed…