Would U go back to Pak for good if U have lived in State for 12-years. Lets say its got something to do with your family and that the best thing would be that U go back there for good. Hypothetically speaking. I wanna hear your input
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Hmm..for family? Well heck Yuppers! Family is the essence of our lives, no family=no life. No life=no joy. No joy=no sorrow. No sorrow=bored to death. Bored to death=no life!
Yes only if it was in the best interest of all of my family. And if after doing istakhara I find out that is the will of Allah then there is no arguing that.
definetly if its in the best interest of my family i will move back.
i'm already planin to go back after my college if the condition in pakistan start gettin better.
when the pakistani officials start respectin me as a human not coz wat i am or wat i have in my pocket. when they start givin me wat i deserve. but i don't know if its ever gona happen
Man, thankx guys, U hit it right at home. All of U guys make sense. Especially the Istikhira. And U are right, in Islam and in our culture, family is the glue that holds a person together!
U guys take care...your friend Asif
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bs,
do what is best for u, ur brothers and sisters will get married, ur dad and mom will find something to do with all the nawasas of theirs,
but u, ull feel sorry all ur life and will blame it on ur family if anything went wrong after u went to pakistan...
so dont ****in buy this stupid family bs.
Haramzada, U have a very good point. The only problem is I am not talking about my relatives. I am talking about my mother and my youngest brother. I am taking care of them. But I don't know, I think I could do a better job of taking care of especially Ami in Karachi then just talking to her on the phone and sending her $$$. I believe that taking care of Ami is not only Fard (I am not talking about the mothers of western culture, I am talking about the 'REAL' mothers of muslim religion and culture), but is inherent in me.
How do U feel about taking care of your family. Maybe like most of my friends, U don't have that kind of responsibility!!??
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