True that you want to get a proper answer, but it got so complicated already to give details and also woman got so patient less (for having a mentality that who ever /what ever they want should get) that it appears as headache right the way to answer/explain. Also there is no particular point to begin answer either - as I said it’s too complicated already that only man can feel.
most of the time - it is not true that " when you find the right woman the one you know deep down that she would make you happy for the rest of your life- you suddenly turn into Murris Green - one fast runner? " well if a woman claim self as right that doesn’t mean the man she dealing with also feel right.
However, let me try a little, even I feel stupid myself to answer it; more over there is no way to answer coherently as well. if give some of the points - woman like to get equal rights, nothing wrong with that - but they also don’t want to loose rights that they enjoyed in the past - such as men have to ask first for love/date and still girl will decide he is cool for her or not, or say what ever wife want, she want her husband take as his choice. and also women live in a mood that if most of the thing not in their way then they will leave - so men try to compromise as need to find another girl as well - where else that girl will find soon one who ever she find cool - temporary or for longer time.
by nature soft minded, polite natured woman attractive to a man, but now women do man’s exercise ( make the shoulder bigger), walk around like a man - so men doesn’t have attraction as before, but nothing to do - so go for a while as long nothing need to take seriously, nor, had any reason to take problem on own life. Mentally men didn’t really change much, but women change any time any fashion, any idea make them feel cool despite of necessary for healthy relation or not. Men only learned to adjust present situation. same time woman’s dis-balanced freedom loving attitude, going with any one looks cool - so man get easily too , instead of taking useless headache. Girls now showing around every where - as much they can, so it also affects men too. Personally I don’t believe woman has to be fully man’s control - I believe both will control each other which ever logically right or good for relation. If in the past there were always been man’s nasty control (as most woman tell loudly) then so many great romantic novel wouldn’t born. But we man don’t argue with those as we know - nothing can be done. Thousands of years men deal with all problem/hardship outside home - these didn’t go in vein - men got genetically some understand abilities that woman never imagine. I am not claiming that woman don’t have qualities - they have as well and as important too - such as I truly believe without a good mother none can grow up with healthy mind - some of the greattest scientist, thinkers as well (there are exception each man and woman case though). I also don’t deny some of the men didn’t or still don’t nasty behavior with woman (not to mention woman also did many wrong to men in the past which never published). well, woman claim in these kind of matter that men used physical force - so woman couldn’t show their talent - so of it is true, but physical power would be the main reason then elephant shouldn’t be the king of world (but they not even king of jungle, big cats always maintain balance of jungle) - there is no doubt both has own ability that opposite can’t fill up, but woman should understand what they neglecting in the name of freedom. where still in many parts of the world a man thinks all day a girl after seeing her eyes longer time, here in the free world after all open girls don’t get that attention - why - need to blame to men or all showing around take away the value of a girl ??
here is my story (I deal myself many thought): I got idea to have a life long relation as I saw from my parents healthy relation - so I wanted as well, but the way I find girls - hate to ask any one for relation, finally decide to sit on net to find some one far from too free world and got it and this year going to marry her be any cost. before decide to find any one on net - I tried to get information what elder men doing or thinking - find very interesting that most man ( usually over 35 or 40 ) all week do what ever they like and when need a female company - take the phone ( you know). their suggestion - what for bring a hell at home - when age was 25 or 30 - look for a relation - while girls looking for better guy/adventure, now we get tired or those **** + called girl do every thing for the night with the same expense I had to do for a so called girl-friend /wife things. if a man see a sexy girl and feel to have sex or take to movie - doesn’t mean he must have to get her, same if a girl feel to choose any thing - should she do it ? Is it all men good or all women unbearable?? Answer definitely “No" but where 80% looks mess up (at least some of us feels) not-for-life then how to know which one from rest 20%? If you search underneath these all free life - find many men now begin to search on net for wife and they will do any thing if they get real one. Waiting for a life partner up to 30-40 years what kind of mentality you woman still expect ( now men even getting same mentality at the age of 22 or 25 too), men are tired of these thing - neither want to express it. If a girl tries with many guys to find the best or for adventure - she herself made many men to travel girl to girl for sex and not to marry mended already. So do the math. Perhaps many of you hate what I write and many of you would agree (including men). I just express - because I myself believe there is still one thing left from the past that is love and love is the only thing can take away us from all stressful life. I know what ever I write not even a little scratch on the surface of whole reality - just feel to write - if any one find some points or different fact to solve own way. I neither believe in any idea nor want to be under any culture. Human will always want love as long parents love their kids and robot not taking over parenting and robot will not take over as long we care to teach love next generation, give love instead of loose balance in the name of freedom. nothing wrong at all with freedom if it being used in proper way - just as none should get drunk and drive in the name of freedom.
Instead of useless argument to make understand a girl what a man want from his wife - it is far better and easier to find another one then taking an un-necessary headache over shoulder. if a man find some one before get fully frustrated - will do all for that girl he believe in. and girl when get tired of adventure - begin to look for the man of life.
Well, again let me mention that this matter can’t be explain so easily niether coherently, nor none can make it complete, even 100% fact; as a man’s view - naturally some of woman’s point of view must be absent here (which also need to get value - if the fact) - i believe. whether a man or a woman has respectful principle - i will always respect him or her equelly.
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