Nobody can explain nature so it is also a part of nature. We cant put a standard to the hatefulness of woman in this world. Every woman has its own mind and so its own way, what she like what not. Many women like everything what guys do while hating all that what girls (females) do. its nature!
Its just the moment thing! I think a man would feel less manly if his girl paid for the dinner (atleast mine would). So since i can't change that, i buy him amazing gifts :@:. We are always even when it comes to money.
But by double standards i meant, i can't be out late with my girls but he can be out till 4 in the morning with his guy friends, just little stuff like that!
"I think a man would feel less manly if his girl paid for the dinner (atleast mine would)"
what do u mean by feeling less manly ? does that mean he feels womanly when u pay and this is disgrace to him ???
Women are great, too, but in my humble opinion and experience they tend to be more messed in the head than guys. At least once a day I find myself wanting to tell one of my girl friends or relatives to get it together and screw their head back on straight.
^ agreed
but if I had to pick at least one or two things that I dont like about men...I'd have to say their big fat ego's and their I'm too proud attitude.
Okay paying for someone isnt a big deal.... But if u pay ... How does it make him a smaller man ?
I dunt mind paying on a date.... its coz of respect for gals; not feeling more or less manly, I do alot of things to show woman some respect .... but whining abt not being able to hang arnd @ 4am is just weak..... Women desrve all the respect in the world as long as they dont whine abt these little things, as these r the reasons why I respect em.
I think it wud be a disgarce for man to do something womanly...... but this doesnt mean they rnt equal coz .... it shld be a disgrace for woman to do something manly.
Y do u wana hang arnd with ur frndz @ 4am anyway ?
Okay paying for someone isnt a big deal.... But if u pay ... How does it make him a smaller man ?
I dunt mind paying on a date.... its coz of respect for gals; not feeling more or less manly, I do alot of things to show woman some respect .... but whining abt not being able to hang arnd @ 4am is just weak..... Women desrve all the respect in the world as long as they dont whine abt these little things, as these r the reasons why I respect em.
I think it wud be a disgarce for man to do something womanly...... but this doesnt mean they rnt equal coz .... it shld be a disgrace for woman to do something manly.
Y do u wana hang arnd with ur frndz @ 4am anyway ?
First: I didn't say 4am, I said late which to me is like 10ish to 11ish!
Second: As you said paying on a date is respectful to a girl, samething here, if you don't respect your a"smaller man"
Third: I am not whining about anything, I respect him and he respects me, but all I was saying was men are just controlling about small things.
First: I didn't say 4am, I said late which to me is like 10ish to 11ish!
Second: As you said paying on a date is respectful to a girl, samething here, if you don't respect your a"smaller man"
Third: I am not whining about anything, I respect him and he respects me, but all I was saying was men are just controlling about small things.
Its not controlling hun.... You never know what time u r gona be back... ppl r drunk on the way and i wud be really uncomfortable and worried thinking abt the possibitles of problems she cud get into...
Once damage is done then u cant fix it and its just better to be safe than sorry !
I am never for girls paying for the date..... I was just making a point that how somethings only suit guys and some things wud only suit gals...... Its not double standards, I think gal and guy in a relationship shld be equal which is almost impossible..... U will always have someone having just a little more control then other .... and i think that littleeeeeee difference in control suit guys.
^yeah i didn't say everyone..but in the 20 yrs of my life, in most cases i have seen and heard of men slipping atleast once. and by slipping i don't necessarily mean cheating, but ALMOST cheating. i just feel it that it doesn't take too much to weaken a guy and make him disloyal towards his partner
^yeah i didn't say everyone..but in the 20 yrs of my life, in most cases i have seen and heard of men slipping atleast once. and by slipping i don't necessarily mean cheating, but ALMOST cheating. i just feel it that it doesn't take too much to weaken a guy and make him disloyal towards his partner