What do girls hate most in men?

In west there are strip joints for women, where they go and have fun. Interesting thing is while no one watching women tend to stay million time more modest then men.
When at strip joints Men are more like doing/feeling/absorbing-feeling in, where as women look at their girl friends and laugh... like "see what I am doing"... women still like men partially covered.

hmmm I think some decent women have set bar too high for other women.. but that is life...