what can be the consequences..

[Deloz]

Re: what can be the consequences..

@LostAngel

deeba they support me and understand me…but now it has come to the point where everyone keeps telling me to give it a shot and it will work out…but i dnt see that happening..the guy’s family is tooo much comitted to this relation and the guy himself is tooo much in love but i dnt feel anything for him…and everyone keep telling me he is a nice person and its hard to find good people and rishtas these days..

last year my friend was exactly in the same situation as u are, she even got nikafied an year early, the guy side was good and polite
the guy was inlove too but my friend wasn,t happy with this rishta at all. She went through hell ..and we told her to break it off but like you she was too worried about her dad,s health. She was also kinda mad at her parents and siblings about this. Her ruskhsati was the worse time for all of us including her coz she wasn,t happy at all but after she got married, everything worked out for her. Alhamdulilah she is so happy now.
One of the reasons she didn,t like him was he being immature and other reasons which were different to yours. Having said that, i m not gonna tell you to stay with him just coz everything worked out for my friend …best way is to talk to your parents and siblings about it. It will help you alot insha Allah.

Good luck