Yes. Esp if, like u said, she’s “bragging” about how much it is costing.Maybe im taknig it too far? but that sounded really rude., at least hte way you told it…
any way do u even have to go? Dont go, dontgotta giveanything, masla khatam 
Wats with 101?
Re: what amount for salamee
there's a desi tradition where you don't give an even amount... like £51 instead of £50... don't know why, maybe someone can explain