Re: what activities and clubs can you join in pakistan to kp urself from going INSA
and Nadz, I am not familiar with Peshwar I am afraid so again I would suggest that you ask the people living there of your age group or even your own hubby as to what is available there. If you are interested in education, there are lots of opportunities for learning all over Pakistan and you will find something to interest you. The only problem you will have is transporation. I had a driver but there several members in the household so it was always a balancing act to get the driver for my errands.
Also, I was raised in England and then lived in USA before moving to Pakistan for 3 years. Life sucked there. The loss of independence, the load shedding, the mosquitoes, the food poisonings, the constant bilgerent staring by jahil perverts, the suggestive harassment by the supposedly highly educated, the lack of intellectual conversation, the torturous incessent bartering, the lack of real genuine friends..it all made for a miserable time for me.
If you have family nearby (Which I didnt..only in laws), that might help you...but you sound like a very independent girl so I wonder if you could survive there.
Finally, if you havent already, I would suggest you get your hubby a British passport before moving to Pakistan. If you decide you cant live there and the sponsorship has already been taken care of, you wont have a problem moving back. My sister also moved to Pakistan and ran back to the UK after two years. But because her hubby didnt have a British passport he had to apply for a visa and was turned down twice.
Good Luck!