end of the day … am not gona go into a discussion with you on this cos i knw for a fact what am talking about ..because for one ..that my father is a peer himself and he was given khilafat by another peer shb in the qadri silsila ..and from what i ve learnt and knw from my own research and through my fathers knowledge that .. there ARE rules you have to obey before you go out telling everyone all wazaaif .. no doubt you may knw em all ..but have u ever thought about that some wazaif are for certain ppl yet at the same time a certain wazifa may not be for them ..very persons sittuation IS different one way or the other even if its a minute diffference.
on the other hand .. ijaazat is usually given to men ..why cos women are ghair mehram to peers who give ijaazat ..unless its a ijaazat which was like proff TQs who just does ilaan in a whole majma that u now all have ijaazat to relay this hadith or this ..and not knwing jahil and not learned / taxi drivers takeway ownners who have no clue what the ijaazat is about ..are now given ijaazat ..
am not not doubting you .. but its best to be sure and i d pm you but .. it would be alot suitable so that everyone knws ..and IF you have the ijaazat etc etc ..why hide it ??
plus, from another thread of yours i sensed that you were complaining about your husband and then edited it ..no offence but .. its kinda strange for me ..that someone who knws and acts on sooo many wazaifs ..complains and still wants companionship from ghair yet the best friend you can have is your husband ..
anyways, good luck ..with you wazifaz ..