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agree 100%
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zinda hoo - saanS chalti hoo :p
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yeh, but if it's a typical desi family, if the family is good then chances are the guy will be good to u as well... but conversely, if the guy is good, its more unlikely the family is good....u get wat me saying?
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i have too many friends who r really messed up..but they've got the best families. (desi)
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I'm not saying it couldn't work out, but its just what I think.... it makes a lot more sense to me, that a good family will also have a guy who will treat you good... but a good guy may not always have a good family to back it up u kno wat i mean?? ....then again, these things never make snese :D
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sara dear … do u think a person who reads 5 time namaz and reads quran everyday will be fked up …na dear that is totally wrong and if u think this way then i will say to change the way of ur thinking cause i think … Allah (swt) never lets his good people to be fked up… 
and about education, dear people who knows ABC are not educated… for me educated means that he knows the way of living, way to behave, way to treat people. way to love and care for others… … and where he learns it from is the place where u get education
Who says it is hard? yeah there is lack of good people but it is not hard dear… dondnay say to khuda bee mil jata hay…
Remember one thing… If u are good, u are going to get someone good as well.. if u are islamic u will get islamic.. if u are bad u are going to get bad person
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jan wat i think might be a lil bit strange but i think if u love someone u should never expect love… and i have this believe that if iam going to love him .. (a true love) then one day he is going to come to me no matter wat… because u are always going to get wat u want if u are faithful to ur love and believe
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thats exactlyyyyyyyyyyy wut i believee!! i loveee u for saying that! that means i’m not the only one who believes that!! :Pretty::Pretty:
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Accha, well, ur definition of educated is different than mine... i thot u meant "parha likha", like formally educatd at some university... yeh everythin u sed is fine.. i still think it's hard to find, coz finding a decent person is just hard period....
n im not sayin all 5-waqt namazis r somehow screwed up, but accha... lets say, one guy he reads quran all the time, he reads all the namazes, but he treats ppl like dirt... looks down on them all the time , is violent towards you... now u still think hes good??
I know all about... "good women for good men and bad women for bad meN" ... but .. pata nahi....some perfectly good ppl wind up with the worst human beings on earth, and supposedly, they're made to be examples for others, so they can look at them and say "Thank Allah I am not like that!!!" ..... i believe we have our soulmates chosen by Allah before we are born, but do we end up with them? Very unlikely... and even if we do , u can't tell if that person is ur soulmate, until you die...
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no jan u are not the only one 
just keep loving and one day inshallah u will get double of ur love
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All nice n stuff…n i wish i cud believe that…wat if u luv someone n they jus dont want to be iwth u?
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i have the love i need! but its just the fact that it mite leave..i'm always gonna be waiting for it to come back to me
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well yeah for me education doesnt mean that
dear tell me one person who treats others like **** while he prays 5 times namaz or read quran … there can be 2 reasons why they treat others bad
- when they pray, they dont pray with heart … they pray just to do it sar ka ak boj jan kar
- they wants to show up to others that they pray… again they dont mean it… they dont pray with clean heart
Sara havent u heard that story that this person wanted a baby and a prophet (dont know which one) said that u cannot have it cause Allah has not written it in ur luck… and then he goes to desert there he meets this begger and tells him everything that he cant have a baby so now he is very sad.. and that begger said dont worry just take this apple.. u and ur wife eat this and then inshallah u are going to have baby… and he did that and after a couple of months his wife was pregnant so he came to the prophet and said u said that my wife is not going to have baby while the begger give me an apple and now my wife is pregnant, so why is that…
the prophet said that when i told u that u are not going to have a baby u lost hope, but after going to the begger …the begger prayed for u and that apple meant nothing .. it is just that the begger prayed 4 days (not sure about the number of days) only for u that is why Allah changed ur luck
so the purpose of this story was that pray and dua can change anything u want.. yeah sure enough Allah has written ur soulmate but dont forget that ur prayers can change anything
so if u pray from Allah to give u a person, like u want…(obviously with clean heart) then do u think that He is not going to listen to u?
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obviously it is going to hurt alot but again sabar ka pal meeta hota hay.. and if he doesnt want to be with me.. then may be Allah would have decided something better for me
or i would think that may be i didnt love him enough or i didnt pray enough to get him
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Nahi ur definition of “educated” is good too… It’s just when most ppl say “educated” they mean someone who will be able to provide for them materially (which u cannot deny the importance of). And that’s what i meant, those who read namaz w/o a clean heart and do it to show off… But do you really think, that those who don’t read namaz all the time, adn don’t read quran, are inherently bad and dont’ have clean intentions or hearts?? I’m not saying it’s okay to skip namaz or never read quran, but to say that only those who do are good-hearted is wrong.
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i dont think that people who dont read namaz or quran are bad but it is just that they wont have as much peace and success in life as much people who do read namaz…
now obviously u are going say that there are non-muslim people too then dear have u ever seen their back ground life… it is worst then hell… they dont have 1 min in peace…
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I'm not saying that..im saying, just coz u dont read namaz, ur bad..i agree wit u , at least for me, that i wud be more content and peaceful with life, if i read namaz more.
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^ exactly that is wat i was trying to say tat namaz gives u peace of mind and soul :)
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shabash ... keep flooodin ... keeep flooding
sara: i dono dude but sometimes u realy make me wonder wat kinda typical family ur raised in. i mean ur too messed up for real. i mean u r prety good at throwin up some good arguements but sometimez it feels like ...... to u, the perfect world is.. wats around u. sry dont wana get u offended but just givin in my thoughts.
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sans to ruk ruk ker bhi chelti hai 
… per tere ko sans k ilawa or kuch nai chahiye kya 