THE STRANGER
**19 years after I was born, my Dad met a stranger who was new to our Lahore town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated with this enchanting newcomer and soon invited **
**him to live with our family by 1967. **
**The stranger was quickly accepted and was around from then on.
He became my good friend and I spent my best years with him
at his place most of the time..meeting his friends and family members
some of whom are still in touch with me..! **
**Back at my house---as I grew up, I never questioned his place in my family. In my young mind, he had a special niche. My parents were complementary instructors: Mom taught me good from evil, and Dad taught me to obey. But my friend was still a stranger...he was the storyteller at our house. **
**He would keep us spellbound for hours on end with
adventures, mysteries and comedies. **
**If we wanted to know anything about politics, history or science, he always knew the answers about the past, understood the present and even seemed able to predict the future! He took my family to the first World Cup Cricket game. He made me laugh, and he made me cry. The stranger never stopped talking, but Dad didn't seem to mind. **
**Sometimes, Mom would get up quietly while the rest of us were shushing each other to listen to what he had to say, and she would go to the kitchen for peace and quiet.
(I wonder now if she ever prayed for the stranger to leave.) **
**Dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions, but the stranger never felt obligated to honor them. Profanity, for example, was not allowed in our home... Not from us, our friends or any visitors. My close friend--our longtime visitor, however, was never allowed any indecent scene or words that would burn our ears or would make my dad squirm and my mother blush. My Dad didn't permit the use of tobacco. But the stranger encouraged us to try it on a regular basis. **
**He made cigarettes look cool, cigars manly and pipes distinguished.
His comments were never blatant, sometimes suggestive, but not embarrassing. **
**I now know that my early concepts about relationships were influenced strongly by the stranger. Time after time, he upheld the values of our society, religion well thought by my parents also, yet he was careful not in overdoing it... And NEVER asked to leave. **
**More than 5 less fifty years have passed since the stranger moved in with our family. He has blended right in and is not nearly as fascinating as he was at first. His family has grown large despite the continuous promo of family planning undertaken by the Government past many years. He has so many children now that it has become impossible for him to control and feed them. Some of them have gone totally bereft..! Still, if you could walk into my parents' den today, you would still find him sitting over in his corner, waiting for someone to listen to him talk and watch him draw his pictures. **
His name?....
**We just call him **
'TV'
(Note: This should be required reading for every household !)
*He has a wife now....We call her 'Computer.' *