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Back to the topic , I think Valentines is a commercial event with some positive aspects to it. I mean guys can be morons. This is like a reminder to be nice onthat day and remind them they should once in a blue moon be caring towards their wives and so on.
Grumpy Im not a drama queen , if I was you’d notice. 
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Alright you aren't :p But Valentines day is a pressure zone. I bet guys bet who out did the other on valentines day. Guys turn it into a competition. :D
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^ doubt it. Most probbaly forget!
ps I sent a teddy bear to somebody and signed it as "your secret admirer" :p
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what a desi mentality. 
so if you see a desi girl fooling around its all wrong and she should be bashed by our mulahs etc. But its okay for you to have your fun with your type of girl.
But the girl you marry must be virgin even though you lost yours at the age of 15.
So girls do accept a used cup like yourself and you still think she should get pampered..
Lets turn the tables… What if she is not a virgin and had about 4 partners just like you and your mother loves her. Qabool hai?
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Ohh really? What did he say?
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He declared his undying love for me. And gave me a chumi.
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Whoa…hold your horses there. Lets remember assuming stuff leads to a multitude of problems. I was not saying that is my point of view. I was stating that is the point of view most desi men hold, which is obviously incorrect.
Instead of taking a comment out of context and applying it to someone who is agreeing with your point of view I would suggest you read the full post first.
And likely I am not in the situation, but i will answer anyway. I would marry a window. I would not marry someone who slept around for fun.
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Ohh…talk about budding romances. When do you get your valentines day present?
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I got my present.
see some guys know how to care. You just have to be related to them in order for them to notice :p.
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grumpy! My dear guppy fellow its time for new glasses. Jerry Springer springed that eye sight of yours for sure.
I stated earlier I prefer flowers every now and then instead of only one day. 1 dozen roses every month wont be a bad idea. I think us women are worth it- appreciate us dont hate us.
Your last comment i was ofcourse expecting something like that from you. So why is it okay for men to go around for fun?
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As acceptible it is for women, it is equally acceptible for men.
A question to you: Are men worth the pampering? Because you obviously don't. Why the double standards?
MQ the question is that is the romance still there? Being a relative can be ignored at points.
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Grumpy actually he got related to me quite recently.
On a serious note , it would be double standards if a wife expects the hubby to do everything special and wont do anything from her side. Of course men deserve to be given attention. And its often the case in a healthy relationship- both sides give it their all.
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Hmm...quite recently...a most intriguing situation...oh well you win some and you lose some
Ok how the hell do i get the smilie list on the quick post option?
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grumpy!
Few minutes ago we were talking about assumptions weren't we?
I think marriage is a beautiful bond if both sides love each other. I hate those marriages that are based on compromise. If he shows care, love and understanding i can assure you he will not hesitate saying that he has married the best woman.
I can be an angel and a ***** at the same time if i have to. So to answer your question he would be pampered big time if he does the same for me.
In general! Isn't it called much more then pampering when we remind you of your paren'ts bday and other events. When was the last time you told your wife ' hun lets call your mom since its her bday today?'
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^ or when was the last time he told her he loved her? Or offered to ask how she was. Men. Too busy complaining all the time.
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So the pampering is conditional on how you are treated in kind? hmmm....
I told her yesterday but i was informed that it was not her mothers birthday and i was duly screamed at for not remembering her mothers birthday.
What can I say you just can't win with women :D
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^
Thank you…
mission accomplished…
mods you may close it now 
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Mission accomplished? How?
And i do tell my loved one regularly Queenie that I do love her. Its a shame she is screaming at me half the time.
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Grumpy, I didn't say it was haram to love your wives. You should love them everyday like someone said.
All I am saying is we Muslims are falling into the traps, you can see in your own local schools and outside. I hope you understand..
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A question to you: Are men worth the pampering? Because you obviously don't. Why the double standards?
MQ the question is that is the romance still there? Being a relative can be ignored at points.
I was wondering the same exact thing today. Why do women sit around and wait for their men to do somethign special for them? Why not do something special for the both of you? Like plan a weekend out of town or something, which is for both not just one person.